I convinced my own mother (then 78) to let me take her portrait a couple of years ago. It took a little convincing. Her first reaction was "why?"
Of all the reasons women resist having their photograph taken, I think the main reason is this: We're waiting for permission.
We make it hard to get past our inner critic, or our "judgmental inner attorney."
The judgmental inner attorney has lots of "shoulds" and "should nots"
I once had an elderly woman say to me say, “The only time a lady should have her photo appear in the paper is when she is married, and when she dies.”
If we give into this kind of sentiment, it only reinforces the negative societal stereotypes on aging. It turns out our very own "judgmental inner attorneys" are usually harder on us than any outside influence. (quotes from inspiring women here, if you need it!)
Remember that the people who love you the most in this world will someday be beyond grateful to have photographs of you, at any and all your ages.
Sure Mother's Day is a bit of an odd Hallmark thing. But if you're lucky enough to be or have a mother still with us, you can do yourselves an important favor: Do a special photoshoot and don't wait until it's too late!
Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans. - John Lennon
Photoshoot with my own mom
We pulled out something fancy from the back of her closet. It didn't quite zip up all the way, but it didn't matter. I did her make-up and hair. It was a beautiful thing, taking care of her in this way and her letting me.
I sat her near a window in her dining room where the light was amazing. I love having the element of her architectural wallpaper as a backdrop. She's an architectural historian, so it adds to it, I think.
I will never forget the special memory of doing this together. We both especially love having wall portrait of the photograph hanging in prominent places in our homes.
When she's gone, I'll still have both the memory and the portrait. When I'm gone, my daughters will.
This is why I know deep in my heart that a mother/daughter or mother-and-whoever, or mother by-herself shoot can be the most special Mother's Day gift ever.
"Margo was able to capture the wonderful relationship that I have always had with my mom. My mom hates having her picture taken but Margo was able to put her worries at ease and she ended up having a wonderful day."- Rita
"Thank you, Margo, for a lovely morning and for making what was a very intimidating process for me end up being an experience that was relaxed, fun and so special. Much love for you!" - Connie
"Not only do we have the most amazing photos to cherish for generations, but we have the sweet memories of spending the day feeling pretty, laughing, talking and realizing how lucky we are to have each other. " - Keri